Finding love in Finland is now more straightforward than ever, thanks in part to my exploration of local dating platforms. Check out this refined guide to the best Finnish dating sites and apps, based on my personal encounters.
⭐ Best Finnish dating apps
MATCH
While exploring dating options in Finland, Match.com came up as a renowned platform, predominantly for those in search of serious, long-term relationships. Although the site is globally oriented, reflected by its availability in twelve languages, it allows for localized searching as well. This means you can find a partner either in Finland or internationally.
Here are some advantages and disadvantages of Match.com:
| Match.com Advantages: | Match.com Disadvantages: |
| Match Guarantee within 6 months (or your money back) | Some profiles are fake |
| Numerous events for members | No messaging of a free account |
| Return Search feature | |
| Excellent app |
- EMMA’S RATING: 10/10
BE2
Be2 stood out as another platform to consider, especially given its large user base of over 20 million people worldwide. While some may venture into more casual connections, the majority of users aim for serious relationships. The platform caught my attention for its dedication to match-making, spearheaded by a comprehensive personality test. After completing the test, I received daily profile matches and compatibility assessments for each profile that piqued my interest.
Here are some advantages and disadvantages of Be2:
| Be2 Advantages: | Be2 Disadvantages: |
| Smart matching system | No proof of identity |
| Scientific personality test | Difficult to unsubscribe |
| Partner recommendations | |
| Simple interface design |
- EMMA’S RATING: 7/10
C-DATE
If you’re leaning towards a more casual experience, C-Date is the go-to platform. It’s designed for people interested in having some lighthearted fun without long-term commitments. Based on my own experience, I noticed that women can use the platform for free, while men get a trial period. The feature that lets you see who’s viewed your profile allows for quick ‘likes’ or ‘passes,’ and anyone you’ve liked ends up on your ‘Attractive Contacts’ list.
Here are some advantages and disadvantages of C-Date:
| C-Date Advantages: | C-Date Disadvantages: |
| User-friendly website | A 14-day notice is required to unsubscribe |
| The male/female balance is almost 50/50 | Slow customer service |
| Affordable one-year package | |
| Discreet payment options |
- EMMA’S RATING: 6/10
LIVING AND DATING IN FINLAND
Finland: the land of northern lights and Santa Claus.
Even though the land is rich in breathtaking landscapes and is the home of one of the most favorite people in the whole world, you may find the culture a bit different than anything else you have experienced before.
For example, flirting is not part of Finnish dating culture – smiling and asking a person their name is usually quite enough. Finns are not especially cuddly and do not expect many romantic outbursts. That is not to say that they have no feelings, though. It is simply the way they are: practical to the bone.
Because the Finnish do not use endearing words to show politeness or closeness, they will think you like them if you address them with ‘dear’. So, if your culture uses many such words, but the words themselves do not carry a particular emotional weight, make sure to avoid using them. At least until after you have got to know the people better.
The Finnish are not big talkers. In fact, they do not mind sitting silently with you or a group of people. What you might also find a bit odd is their love of personal space: Finns like to keep their physical distance from people they do not know. Naturally, once they let you step into that protective bubble, you no longer have to worry about keeping your distance. Still, this is a cultural feature worth keeping in mind before you start showing interest in a Finn.
Finns have two types of relationships: flings and serious relationships. There is rarely anything in between. When in a relationship, the Finnish treat it as exclusive without having to agree on it first. Finnish women do not have a problem approaching men, and Finnish men do not have a problem being the ones approached.
ARE DATING SITES POPULAR IN FINLAND?
Dating websites and apps are pretty popular in Finland. According to Statista’s 2021 survey, around 17% of the Finnish use these services anywhere between several times a day to less than once a week. They use these websites to find serious relationships as well as more casual ones.
While some Finnish dating websites have been in existence since the 90s, others have sprung up since. Many Finns use free dating sites and sites designed for meeting other Finns. Still, an increasing number are using global dating websites to find local or international partners.
Breaking the Ice with Finnish Singles
As the Finnish are mostly reserved when strangers are concerned, using dating websites and apps to connect with them actually makes a lot of sense. These online dating services give them the time they require to get to know you better and be more relaxed. At the same time, they also give you a chance to gain insight into their culture and way of thinking and expressing emotions.
Although many online relationships may start out as flings and turn into something more serious (and vice versa), which dating website you choose will greatly affect the type of relationship you end up having. While some sites encourage all types of relationships, the prevailing practice is that one website focuses on one kind of relationship. For that reason, you need to know exactly what you want and let that determine your choice of website.
HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OUT OF YOUR ONLINE DATING EXPERIENCE
Choosing the most suitable dating service, though very important, is only one step of the process. After you have made that choice and registered an account with a suitable dating website or app, you still need to do a lot to achieve your goal. This includes the following:
- Creating a good profile
Your profile is your way of introducing yourself to potential partners. Therefore, it is best to fully complete it because that profile will give others a better idea of who you are. After all, when you look at other people’s profiles, you prefer it that way, too, right?
- Including a good photo of yourself
A good photo is not a well-filtered one – it is one that best represents who you are. If you are feeling a bit insecure about your looks, it is time you try to get over that. Choose a well-lit photo that emphasizes something you like best about yourself – maybe your beautiful hair or your green eyes.
- Looking for matches
Of course, some dating services will give you match suggestions according to your personality test and preferences. However, that does not stop you from looking at yourself. After all, a personality test is a test, and even though it is based on science, it does not have to get everything right.
- Getting in touch
Once you have found somebody who you think might be a good match for you, make your move. You are all there for the same reason, so you should not hesitate to get in touch.
- Being patient
People are different, and one approach does not work for all of them. For example, some people do not mind it if you are direct, while others prefer to take things a bit more slowly. Be patient and understanding with each one of them. Try to test the water first to see what they are like and whether or not you are on the same wavelength.
Conclusion
Match.com is one of the best Finnish dating apps for those seeking serious long-term relationships.
FAQ
Learn more about Finland. Take the lead. Be punctual. If you ever decide to move in together, be ready to do your part of the housework.
Don’t be afraid to show your independence. Don’t try to break the silence just because you feel uncomfortable. Don’t try to hurry things.
In addition to global sites such as Match and Be2, the Finns also like to use their local dating sites. Tinder is also Popular.
The Finnish does not have a problem with splitting the Bill. That is, they prefer to pay for whatever they have ordered. This way, they do not feel they owe the other person anything.
Finns do not kiss everybody when they meet. In formal situations, they shake hands with both men and women. In informal situations, a nod or a wave is quite enough.
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